#1 let us discuss "CRAZY LITTLE THING CALLED LOVE"
I don't like to be a spoiler but please do watch if you haven't plus you get to see quite a handsome guy in the movie...so it will worth it ^^
What I love about this movie is that it is an inspiring love story for teens or for somebody older like me who just sucks at love.....it reminded me about how there are two different process of falling in love. The negative side and the positive side.
This story shows that negative side through competition. Two girls fighting for one boy, and two boy struggling to like one girl. It is very funny and refreshing for me to see all highschool scenes and remembering that you used to be like that too when you are younger....kinda make me feel old but what the hack, at least now i can only remember the good ones.
The positive side of falling in love is when you feel the opposite of the negative side which is when you think selfless. When you think more of others than yourself and you become also aggressive about it. You also have your own expectation but your expectation is not based on your own but based on what you think the others expectation is. In the movie it shows in how someone tries so hard to be the best of a person she could be so that the guy could finally realize her.
As I always believe that God speaks to me through movie and once again this time it proof it. I actually just got into a small falling in love and broken heart situation that God uses this movie to reminded me about a lot of things. First is that the fact that I unconsciously felt into the positive and negative sides. I mean this just hit me like a slap in my face because I expect myself to be better at it and at least not to fall into the negative sides. But as human I could be, I felt. But thanked God that He catches me again everytime and reminded me.
I felt stupid that I like a guy for quite some time although I know everybody like him. I make myself believe that He is the one for me just because we have similarities characters. When I like him, I just try so hard to become the best of me. I read books ^^, I seek God more, I wanted to work hard but soon I found out that He is as nice and close to other girls as to me, I broke down and felt into the negative side. I push him away, trying to move on as soon as possible and completely hate myself for falling so easy for a guy.
But now after watching the movie, I am glad that at least I felt in love before...That I become a better person because of a guy ^^ although there is no happy ending in my end yet but at least I have become a better person. And I am glad that I didn't fall deeper into the negative side by being an aggressive competitor out there ^^
I want to fall in love again. Although the risk is to have my heart broken again (so far i went through twice)
But if every time I could come out of it becoming someone better who God wanted me to be, I will take the risk.
Some people might think that going through only twice broken hearted is not that bad at all but I could tell you no matter how long or how much love you put on the table, broken heart is a broken heart, the pain is the same unfortunately. Broke my heart from a four years relationship and broke my heart from liking a guy for two years.
But if anybody out there who come to me broken hearted and cry their heart out and feel like the end of the world, I will tell you "It's gonna be ok, i promise".....i seriously will say that and i mean it with all my heart that you will be ok.....don't tell me I don't know how it feel to be very heart broken, to be hopeless, because I know and I almost end my life there.....but here I am now, happy, content and I am a better person ^^ yeaahhh
Anyway, for your all who love chick movie....watch "Crazy Little Thing Called Love"...
For you all who wanted to share your heart....just message me ^^
I am very happy to listen...I might not be able to solve your problem, but i could be a good listener for you.
"For God so love us that He gave His only son to die for us"
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